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This Puzzle Called Life

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This Puzzle Called Life

Life rarely arrives with instructions. Instead, it comes to us in pieces — moments, memories, choices, losses, and joys — each one asking to be held, understood, and placed where it belongs.

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Laurel D. Rund
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This Puzzle Called Life
<p>Life rarely arrives with instructions. Instead, it comes to us in pieces — moments, memories, choices, losses, and joys — each one asking to be held, understood, and placed where it belongs. Some pieces fit easily. Others resist, turning and shifting, inviting us to pause and look again.</p><p>What the world often sees is the outer edge of the puzzle — the roles we've played, the stories we tell, the shape we present to the world. But the deeper truth lives inside. There are inner pieces shaped by love and longing, by grief and resilience, by questions that don't seek quick answers.</p><p>After my husband of 42 years, Marty, died, I found myself reaching for creativity as a way to breathe again. I turned to creating art and writing poetry — not to explain the loss, but to live alongside it. Those pieces became a place of refuge and expression, helping me make sense of what could not be neatly answered. Over time, I gathered that work and shaped it into my book, <em>Emerging Voices Living On: A Journey Through Loss to Renewal</em>.</p><p>I later met my husband Phil, whose companionship, music, and steady love reminded me that even after great loss, new pieces can still find their place. Life continued to unfold, not as I had imagined, but with a quiet wisdom of its own.</p><p>As we move through life, we discover that not every piece arrives on time. Some are lost for a while. Some return changed. And some only reveal their purpose when we are finally ready to receive them. There is no rushing this process. The puzzle unfolds in its own rhythm, guided by patience, curiosity, and grace.</p><p><em>This Puzzle Called Life</em> is an invitation to trust the unfolding. Nothing is wasted. Every piece belongs — even the ones that once felt out of place. Over time, the image reveals itself. And in the process, so do we.</p><p><em>&ldquo;Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived.&rdquo;</em> — S&oslash;ren Kierkegaard</p>

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Laurel D. Rund

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